| Your whole post assumes that people are overall kind and want to make this place friendlier, I don't believe that's the case. Some guys here actually enjoy throwing a mean remark or a sarcastic reply, sitting back, and watching the other person get all worked up. They call it 'baiting' someone. They even admit to how much they enjoy doing that. Those are what is poisoning the Forum and chasing away good members. You'll hear every excuse in the book: "we do this so you grow a thick skin", "we do it to chase away kids and ricers, our cars are depreciating so it's attracting an immature crowd", "you shouldn't take it personal"....etc...but the fact of the matter is, there are more and more bastards who get a high out of pissing people off. Only thing you can do is ignore it, you'll never change them.
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